Frequently Asked Questions

What exactly is Freemasonry?
Many great minds have worked tirelessly to give a precise answer to, “what is Freemasonry”. However, a person could spend an entire life time contemplating a definitive response that still would not satisfy every member’s vision. The reason for such difficulty in formulating a response is that every man takes away something different from our Fraternity.

The most common response to define the work of the Fraternity is that, “Freemasonry is a beautiful system of morality, veiled in allegory, and illustrated by symbols…”. Using the real life tools of the skilled craftsmen who built unparalleled buildings in Medieval Europe, to teach men lessons about life, morality, values, and conduct.

The instruction of Freemasonry comes in the form of three degrees: Entered Apprentice, Fellowcraft, and Master Mason. All three degrees are taken by every Mason to become a full member of the Fraternity.

Where did Freemasonry come from?
Freemasonry’s exact linear history throughout time is still being researched & debated by the top Masonic Scholars of today. Though we do know, as in its present form it has key dates that stick out that define Masonry as it is today (such as the formation of the first Grand Lodges in Europe; the first lodges in North America, etc.). The general consensus is that stone building guilds began to admit non-skilled members at the decline of their popularity. Thus, giving way to the creation of modern Freemasonry.

Who, and why do men join Freemasonry?
As to the reason why every member joins differs significantly. Some men join to satisfy an urge they feel for inner-self improvement, to feel connected to their forefathers, or out of a family tradition. The reasons differ just as every man found in lodge represents diverse culture backgrounds, professions, and beliefs.

Many men through out the history of the United States have been Freemasons. Notably, George Washington, Benjamin Franklin, John Hancock, Harry Truman, Gunning Bedford (one of Delaware’s signer of the U.S. Constitution), John Wayne, Neal Armstrong, Samuel Colt, and many more have been Freemasons. The list of brothers who have enriched the human condition is extensive. It is also important to note that there are estimated 3 million brothers alone in the United States.

Who can become a Freemason?
A man who mature both emotionally, and psychically. The age requirement in the state of Delaware is eighteen. The man must be of a good report, and upright character, and hold a belief in a Supreme Being.

The less formal requirements are that the man must be able to support his membership in the Fraternity in a financial sense. As membership requires annual dues, and a business casual dress code (dress shirt, tie, slacks, and blazer; suit, etc). Also, the man should have time to participate in lodge that will not interfere with his work and family commitments. It is only logical to question that, how can a new member enjoy his fellow brother and membership if he cannot attend the functions at lodge?

Is Freemasonry a religion then, since I heard it is a Fraternity based on the Fatherhood of God, and the Brotherhood of Man?
At different times throughout history, Freemasonry has been misconstrued by those who out of fear, lack of research, or resentment have made it the point of their agenda.

However, Freemasonry is simply not a religion, and the reasons are as follows. We first, and foremost, do not have the Holy Sacraments found in a place of worship (Eg: Conformation, Baptism, Communion/Eucharist, etc), and do not perform worship services. Freemasonry also has no religious dogma that is presented in the hope of obtaining personal salvation. In fact, it is forbidden for the discussion or advancement of any religion at our meetings.

The only religious aspect of Freemasonry is that we require our members to have a belief of a God, and hope that our members are involved in their private place of worship.

Is Freemasonry a secret society?
Freemasonry is not a secret society; rather, a fraternity that has private aspects. Which when compared to the practices of daily life is understandable. For instance, businesses ranging from family operations to Fortune 500 companies conduct private meetings. These meetings are held in private due the nature of its contents, and are only open to members.

Are Freemasons involved in the community?
Generally speaking, most Freemasons are involved in their communities in some way.

Speaking specifically for Lafayette Lodge No. 14, over our history we have been very involved in our community. Whether it be raising money for charities, adopting roads to clean up, individual members offering their own time and skills to rebuild historical landmarks, ringing bells for the Salvation Army, and supporting public works for those in need.

If I become a member are there activities that my wife and children can take part in?
Throughout the course of the year there are events that the entire family can become involved in. Events that range from Ladies Night (a night dedicated to the women in a Masons life, that involve a dinner, and dancing), picnics, and other outings that are planned throughout the state.